You’ve been daydreaming about strutting in six-inch stilettos, commanding the stage with your killer lip-sync skills, and transforming into a fabulous version of yourself. But there’s one thing holding you back: the noise. “What will people think?” “Is it too political?” “Will I offend someone?” If these questions are swirling in your mind, you’re not alone.
Drag has always been dazzling and disruptive, and that’s part of its charm. Sure, it’s not without controversy—issues like kids attending drag events, political rhetoric, and religious pushback often grab headlines. But here’s the tea: Drag has the power to challenge societal norms, and it’s okay to feel scared. Let’s unpack the controversies with a dash of humor and a splash of sparkle.
Drag and Kids: Is Glitter Dangerous?
One of the loudest debates revolves around kids attending drag events or story hours. Critics argue it’s inappropriate, while supporters highlight the educational and inclusive messages these events offer. Drag is about creativity and self-expression—skills that are just as valuable for kids as they are for adults. And let’s be honest, children have been exposed to costumes, exaggerated characters, and playful personas in Disney movies and theater for decades. The only difference? Drag queens bring the fabulousness up a notch.
If you want to do drag but worry about backlash, remember: You’re not obligated to perform for children. Drag is versatile, and you can focus on audiences where you feel most comfortable.
Politics: Why Does Drag Get Everyone Talking?
Drag often gets dragged into politics (pun intended). Laws aimed at restricting drag performances in public spaces have made headlines, with opponents painting drag as inherently provocative. In reality, drag is a centuries-old art form that challenges traditional views of gender and self-expression. Its roots in activism—like the role drag queens played in the Stonewall Riots—remind us that drag has always been about making a statement.
If you’re worried about navigating the political landscape, focus on your why. Whether you’re here for the art, the fun, or the statement, there’s room for everyone in drag. Politics may swirl around the art form, but your journey is uniquely yours.
Religion: Divine or Dangerous?
Another spicy topic is the religious opposition to drag. Critics often cite traditional beliefs about gender roles, but drag is not an attack on religion—it’s an exploration of identity and creativity. In fact, many drag artists find ways to honor their spirituality through their art. Ever heard of Sister Roma from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence? This group of drag performers uses humor and satire to spread messages of love and acceptance.
Feeling nervous about this controversy? Keep in mind that drag is about your story, not about fitting into someone else’s narrative. You don’t need to battle anyone’s beliefs; you just need to embrace your own.
Breaking Through Your Conditioning
If these controversies have you hesitating, ask yourself: What’s holding me back? Often, the fear of judgment stems from societal conditioning. We’ve been taught to “stay in our lane” and not challenge norms—but drag is all about stepping out of those lanes, swerving through glitter-filled intersections, and creating your own path.
Start small. Try on a wig at home. Watch RuPaul’s Drag Race or YouTube tutorials. Practice makeup. Join a supportive drag community where you can explore without judgment. Divine Drag School is one such place—our classes are designed to help beginners dip their toes (or stilettos) into drag in a welcoming, inclusive environment.
The Sparkling Truth
Drag is an art form, a personal journey, and a celebration of individuality. Yes, it may stir up controversy, but the joy, confidence, and freedom it brings far outweigh the noise. By stepping into drag, you’re not just becoming someone new—you’re reclaiming who you’ve always been beneath the layers of societal expectations.
So, grab that glitter, practice your strut, and let the world know: You’re here to slay, controversies and all.